The petite star has never been one to keep her private life to herself, instead she has always been open about her loves and losses sometimes going into detail.
This time around, Boity isn’t speaking to a magazine about her relationship, she is telling all on her new blog, boitythulo. In one post, titled ‘My lessons from love’ Boity shares about what she took from her relationship with Cassper Nyovest, which she admits left her heartbroken.
Take advice from no more than two people
Remember your best friend, ‘Gut’? Yeah…s/he is all the advice you need and maybe one or 2 more people with experience in the matter. Anything more than that will confuse and mislead you.
Promises should be honoured
Stop trying to turn excuses and empty promises into a bad case of amnesia.
Leave expectations at the door
You will never experience absolute love if half your heart is
blinded by what you are expecting to find and receive from your partner.
Time is of the essence according to Boity
The person who loves you will ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS make TIME. Please
believe this. Anything else is an excuse. in fact, I genuinely believe
that “time” is truly the most romantic gift a lover could give.
She realized her own worth
“The greatest lesson above all else has been the fact that I am a damn good woman. No. I am an Amazing Woman. I’ve learned that I have such beautiful qualities that I don’t give myself enough credit for.”