10. DON’T Get stuck
Replaying the insult again and again, seeing the traitor in any man, working out the revenge plan and reveling in your grief.All these are not worth it.
All this will only spoil your mood. And what’s the point of constant reminding yourself of the negative experience? This wasn’t your fault,even if you think it is move on. If it wasn’t your fault you need to stop thinking of yourself as of the victim.
11. MUST: Believe in love again
Getting some cynicism after the break is quite normal. But it is important to know that trust and understanding is the base of any relationship.
You shouldn’t bring the negative experience to the new relations: analyzing too much, always keeping your ears and becoming a secret agent. You may be surprised, but not all people are not that bad as you think.