My dear Ladies, these are 4 things real men need in a relationship apart from s3x

4. Confidence and independence

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A confident and independent woman is a keeper in a real man’s eyes.

Unlike the beer-goggled guy at the bar, a real man is not intimidated by a woman who knows what she wants from life. He will admire and feed of her energy.

Real men don’t want a woman to be weak or submissive. They admire and respect women who are successful, passionate and financially secure.

At the end of the day, they want their children to be raised by a quality well-focused woman and not some lazy, un-driven, willing-to-do-anything-he-says robot.

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5. Great s3x and physical touch

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Real men are not just looking for sex. We’re looking for mind blowing, sheet ripping, and lip biting adventurous sex; the kind that keeps us coming back for more day-after-day, week-after-week and year-after-year.

Every man has different likes, so get to know his and keep doing what he likes, just don’t get into the same old routine, always spice things up.

Tell him what you like and encourage him to tell you what he likes. Communication is key to mind blowing sex!

Don’t be fooled into thinking men don’t like non-sexual physical touch. We love it.

We might not want it in public, at church, work, or all the time. But when a woman runs her hands over a man’s neck, or gives him an unexpected foot or body massage. We secretly love this and think ‘she’s a keeper.’

Find your king, keep your king

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Quality men are hard to find nowadays, so if you are lucky enough to have one, make sure you don’t let him go.

Give him daily compliments, send him loving messages, be playful, be naughty, be spontaneous, give him freedom and keep things exciting.

In life, it’s the little things that really count. You don’t need to spend money or give up your own dreams or happiness. Simply be yourself, be happy and learn to understand your man, like he understands you.

A woman who knows and grows with her man will eventually win his heart and become that irreplaceable one in a billion he won’t want to let go of.

Ian is the founder and CEO of He is an online dating expert, dating coach and has over 11 years of experience in the industry. Follow Ian and his journey on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram @DateMeKenya

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