Kidi sparks social media debate on why women say “you’ll never find someone like me” after a relationship has ended

Ghanaian singer KiDi’s harmless question on why most women think men lose more after a relationship has ended has turned into a heated debate on social media.

According to KiDi, he never understood why such women believe they were irreplaceable thus after an amorous relationship had died, the man will probably not find anyone like her.

The thinking behind the question was why women do have such a quality entitlement and have the belief that the man was always at the losing end after the relationship had ended.

He wrote: Why’s it that when there’s a break up. It’s always the woman thinking the man has fumbled a “good thing” and he’ll never find a woman like her?

Most men intimated that women also lose a lot when a relationship ends and normally are in a situation where they might never find a man like the one they parted ways with.

The women also took a defensive stance and felt men are normally at the losing end because they end up coming back for the women they broke up with or rejected.

Maame Ama wrote: Because men tend to not know what they have until it’s gone.

Kofi B replied: Same question he’s asking. Why not woman tend to not know what they have until it’s gone

Nungua SM wrote: Bro take this matter do song, cause some women need to get this soak in thier subconscious mind knowing a man will be okay without them ,when there’s break up & there’s better women out there too

Lhiz wrote: Maybe because she was really good to him…when you know you did your best and the other didn’t appreciate that’s wah happens

Mz Zel wrote: Plus it’s not all the time sometime cuz woman do so much in the relationship that you don’t get the same thing in return that gets exhausting to the point you have to move forward the words that alway been used like selfishness and foolishness even unappreciated as well