Controversial Ghanaian marriage counselor, popularly known as Counselor Lutterodt has advised young women to gain something valuable from men who only want to have sex with them.
According to him, this is the solution to women who feel neglected and used after been dumped by men who have sex with them
“This guy who wants to sleep with the girl before marriage, because he has used the mentality for testing, if the girl is willingly ready to practice prostitution, she should go ahead and make money out of it.
You’re practising prostitution, you don’t make babies. If the guy wants to test it, put some value on it so that we know you have practised prostitution, which is the oldest profession in the world.”
Girl, if you want to test, you can go ahead but make sure the testing is of value to you, in case after testing he wants to drop it. If you think that you have the right and you’re a woman who is a second-hand car and do not deserve to be treated like a brand new car from a garage but you have to be tested because you yourself you don’t have value for yourself, then go ahead and test but make money out of it.”
He also stated that people engage in pre-marital sex for a reason and that trust is not needed in marriage but belief.
“People want to have sexual intercourse before you get married, they have a reason for it. I hear people saying when you have sex before marriage, the trust is broken; it’s a lie. I’m speaking to you as a professional. It’s a lie because you don’t need trust in a marriage, you need belief”.
People say when you sleep with another woman’s husband, some other woman will sleep with your husband. People are sleeping with the husbands of women who have never slept with anyone’s husband before.
The law of Karma has never worked when it comes to sexuality and will never work. Let’s stop this gimmick. We should teach people to understand what sexual intercourse is before marriage, so people will make an informed decision, then we can determine whether it’s good or bad”, he added.