Some thoughts for men to consider. Kind of “how to get your wife naked and succeed” speech.–men and love
1. See your p*nis as a gateway to a larger soul-moving finale. Yes, your soul, your needs for affection, love, tenderness and love.
Focus on those moving parts, the inner needs for dependency and life-changing connection with your lover. Set your p*nis-focus aside in favor of your softer, inner self.
2. Know before you penetrate her, you have to first penetrate her heart and soul. Yes, she wants s3xy, exciting, erotic touch and all the fireworks that go with it. But many women want blood-curdling fireworks that first launch her internal emotions, make her feel like she is the most beautiful, cherished woman in the world.
You heard it, cherished. All the time, hours and days before you embrace her naked. Does your woman feel that valued, apart from her body and the s3x she gives to you?
3. Set the right goal. Like a strategic business move, go for the gold. The gold? Yes. Try to create closeness and affection that surface from a well of care and compassion, like the vapor from a hot spring exuding from below.
Take your mind off your s3xual desire long enough to feed your mind full of goodies like, “How can we just hold each other and experience our love in the moment.” Or, “Let’s look into each other’s eyes and without words, express tenderness and the thrill that we know each other and have each other for life.”
Many men are starved for affection, for the soft embrace of a woman who gives them the tenderness and warmth they don’t know how to ask for. Sometimes don’t know even exists within.
Without these kinds of components, love-components, men search for closeness and bonding with such a limited emotional experience. So they keep pursuing s3x, to get these gems — thinking that the excitement of intercourse provides Nirvana. Not so. Many other moving parts.
So, guys, check in to your needs for love and connection. Let these guide, direct and sponsor your real wants and needs. S3x is a gateway to the soul. A gateway, not an end in itself. Break through and give her what she needs, what you need. True s3x-