Nollywood actress Etinosa Idemudia has disclosed how her ex-husband Navy Lieutenant Babatunde Solomon Korede abused her sexually on their first date.
She also stated that she was tortured several times whiles she was married and left with fractured ribs and a stab wound.
According to the actress, she never had the courage to report the incident to the security agencies and ended up marrying him out of fear.
The couple have gone their separate ways but the actress has begged her ex-husband to stop threatening her and that she wants to live in peace.
She also revealed that her ex-husband sent his friend known as Lieutenant Adedamola Adeleke to harass her after she exposed him.
“Now he sends his friend Lt. Adedamola Adeleke. Fear is your strongest weapon. I am no longer afraid. FEAR and VICTIM shaming are an abusers strongest weapon. I have no shame anymore. For someone that has been locked out of the house wearing nothing but her underwear in the middle of the night.
No Dami, no i don’t have shame. No shame, no childhood, No FEAR you guys took that away for me. Should I talk about why I made that video about rape last year??? Because what I said ladies should do was exactly what I did. I closed my eyes and told myself I wanted it.
When I made that video, I was battling with memories and I used the only copying mechanism I know COMEDY. But Nigerians did not know. I could not come out and say it was my experience because how would I explain to Nigerians that I married a man who raped me on the first date. SHAME and FEAR. DAMMI LEAVE ME ALONE. YOU CAN’T BULLY ME ANYMORE”, she wrote on her Instagram page.