Prostitution is an illegal business venture in Ghana. In fact, persons caught in the act are most likely to be arrested by the police and also arraigned before the courts of law.
Ghana’s society is conservative, by that we mean the country’s culture always frowns upon intimacy outside of marriage.
We often accuse prostitutes of been the cause of marriage breakdowns when the question should rather be asking is the reason why some men decide to engage in this activity in the first place.
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These pointers could help us answer the questions.
They just want to experiment
Our Ghanaian society has been constructed in such a way that men have no choice but to be men no matter how immature they are. This pressure is most felt when a young man – who is also a virgin – gets married and also expected to prove how good he is in bed. With society being highly conservative and parents shying away from teaching their children about how to make love, you will find most of these men experimenting with prostitutes for a fee. After all, an exposure is all they need.
Being Sex-starved at home
Most marriages tend to break up due to one main reason which happens to be lack of intimacy. When there is the absence of intimacy in a marriage that is enough grounds for partners to seek attention elsewhere. Seeking the services of call girls are mostly the secret and “safe” way by which they could enjoy intimacy and still save their marriages.
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They just need someone to talk to
Most married Ghanaian men engage the services of call girls just so to clear their minds of family issues they face at home. Unfortunately, most married Ghanaian men come home to angry and unwelcoming wives who for some reasons, have unsettled issues with them. Most marriages in Ghana are always faced with the idea that men should not be women but men; that men should hide their emotions and not cry or complain.
A famous American preacher, TD Jakes, sums this all up in one of his sermons. According to him ” the reason why some married men pay for the services of these women is not to sleep with them but rather to talk, just to talk”.
Bruised emotions
Some psychologists around the globe will tell you that the main reason why married men engage the services of prostitutes is that their emotions could have been broken by past experiences. Men are emotional beings. They do not express their emotions but rather shield them from heartbreaks. There is an adage which says “If you break a man’s heart, you have broken him”. This is exactly the case with most married men who seek the services of these women in the dark life.
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This post is not to justify the reason(s) why married men seek the services of call girls. In fact, it has been recorded that this act could ruin marriages especially when both partners are exposed to sexually transmitted infections (STI’s). Also, the act remains illegal and punishable by jail terms or other sanctions.
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